Review: The End of Average

Todd Rose’s personal story could be a book in itself. Going from a high school drop out to getting his Ph.D and teaching at Harvard is quite the turnaround story.

In “The End of Average”, Rose debunks the universal application of averages. The book is divided into three parts. Part I: The Age of Average explores how averages came to be and how they have been applied in the past and today. Part II : The Principles of Individuality demonstrates a superior framework for understanding people. Part III: The Age of Individuals shows a way forward to a better world.

This is one of those books that will change the way you look at the world.

Title: The End of Average
Sub-Title: How We Succeed in a World That Values Sameness
Author: Todd Rose
Publisher: HarperCollins
Copyright: 2016
ISBN: 978-1-553-44343-713-4
Publisher’s Website: http://www.harpercollins.ca
Author’s Website: http://www.toddrose.com

 

Bring Back Bowing

As a child, growing up in a religious home, I would often find myself in church on Sundays. During the Orthodox Christian liturgy there are a number of times where bowing occurs. For example, at one point the priest (facing the congregation) asks for everyone’s forgiveness. He bows while asking and the congregation bows in return. Of course, bowing is common in many (or maybe all) religions. But, what about bowing in other settings?

In my limited historical research, it appears that bowing was once a common greeting everywhere. In the West, it seems to have only survived as a head nod and a gesture to so-called royalty. (By the way, I’m not a royalist.) I’ve travelled in Japan, Taiwan and Hong Kong and I was always pleased to see bowing in some everyday situations.

The current pandemic is changing how people interact with each other. With that in mind, I would like to suggest that we bring back bowing. See an old friend on the street? Start your interaction by bowing to each other. Just finished a meeting at work? That’s a perfect time for everyone to bow. It doesn’t mean that there aren’t still situations where you should shake hands, fist-bump, high-five or hug. My point is to consider if a bow is more appropriate first.

Another reason I like bowing is that it is a natural expression of mutual respect. (One of the reasons, I’m not a royalist is that respect is only supposed to flow one way when you bow to a “royal”.) Along with everyone working together to keep the world healthy, being respectful to each other will make the world a better place, too.

 

Review: Rebels At Work

If you are the kind of person who is always thinking about how to make things better at work, then “Rebels At Work” is for you. Written by Lois Kelly and Carmen Medina, two seasoned “rebels”, it covers quite a bit of territory in less than 150 pages.

Sometimes, books that bill themselves as “handbooks” are not quite that, but this one can definitely be used as one. Based on real world experience and backed up with science, the authors provide mentoring — in book form — for those of us who would like more success in our attempts to improve culture and processes at work.

Title: Rebels At Work
Sub-Title: A Handbook for Leading Change from Within
Author: Lois Kelly and Carmen Medina
Publisher: O’Reilly
Copyright: 2015
ISBN: 978-1-49190-395-7

 

 

 

Me vs. Einstein

Recently, a letter of Albert Einstein’s was sold for US$ 1.5 million. He wrote it while travelling in Japan in 1922. He was short of money for a tip, so he wrote a letter containing some life advice, which could also be called tips. From the following article https://www.livescience.com/60771-einstein-happiness-letter-auctioned.html , here is part of what he wrote:

“A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness.”

It goes without saying that I’m not as smart as Albert Einstein and I never will be. And, I’m not disagreeing with the advice, especially since I had alreay come to a similar conclusion years ago.

But, if I were to say it, would it be less true because I haven’t and won’t have the success he enjoyed? Can someone say to me “sour grapes” and be using the expression correctly? (Do a search for Aesop’s fable “The Fox and the Grapes” if you aren’t familiar with the expression.)

Or, perhaps it is Einstein who isn’t the reliable advisor here. By the time Einstein had written the letter, his place in history was already assured. When discussing the great people of science, such as Newton and Aristotle, you will have to mention to his name, too. So, if he is advising not to pursue success, does it hold much weight? I don’t think so.

Of course, it’s OK if you don’t agree with me — I’m no Einstein!

 

Bird In A Tree

I was going to write something profound about misunderstanding or finding your place in the world, instead I’m just posting a photo of a bird in a tree.  Also, I’m easing back into blogging…

 

The 50% Alphabet

I haven’t blogged much over winter (although I have been writing other things). If I had to state a reason, I could say something about work-life balance, but that wouldn’t make me look good. Instead, I’m blaming the English language.

Let’s face it, there are too many letters in the alphabet. Here’s my theory: if there were half the letters, I could write twice as much in the same amount of time. So, in an attempt to help ALL English speakers, below is how I’m suggesting the alphabet should be.

A – keep
B – keep
C – discard (use S or K)
D – keep
E – keep
F – keep
G – keep
H – discard (I don’t have a reason)
I – discard (use E)
J – discard (use G or maybe I)
K – keep
L – keep
M – keep
N – discard (similar to M)
O – keep
P – discard (similar to B)
Q – discard (similar to K)
R – keep
S – keep
T – discard (similar to D)
U – discard (use O)
V – keep
W – discard (use V)
X – discard (use S)
Y – discard (use I or E for vowels, G otherwise)
Z – discard (use S)

All together there will be 13 letters. (13 is prime number — who could have a problem with that?) If you learned the classic nursery rhyme when you were young, you will see it can be made to work. Try it:

“A B D E F G K L M O R S V. Nov I kmo me A, B, Ds, vom’d o kome and blae ved me.”

I think the history books will show that April 1st, 2018 was a pivotal day for the English language. Of course, I’m available for TED talks and Noble Prizes.

GD Konstantine (a.k.a. GD Komsdadene)

 

 

A Time For Renewal

I have always been grateful for all opportunities to either start something new or to renew something established. Last year, some people close to me went through some serious health issues. I don’t know what the future holds, but as I see them recovering, I feel that the time for renewal is here. For me, it has also been a chance to refocus on what is really important.

The other day, while walking through the Toronto Botanical Garden, I saw another kind of renewal. Spring bulbs are starting to show their colours. (The photo below shows some of the crocus plants poking out through the ground.) I hope wherever you are, and whatever season it is, you and your loved ones are well and getting better!

By the way, the next post will be a lot less serious.

 

Neither Useful Nor Functional

Whenever I hear someone talk about the “purpose of art” I think of the following quote from Richard Serra:

“If you rob art of its uselessness, then what you are doing is not art,” says Serra, adding: “I’m interested in sculpture, which is neither useful nor functional.”

With that in mind, I’ll end here before I say something useful and this blog post loses its artistic integrity.

The photo below is a sculpture of Richard Serra’s (‘Tilted Spheres’) found in Toronto’s Pearson International Airport.  (If I remember right, the plates are 2″ thick steel.)

The quote is found on page 149 in the book “50 Sculptures You Should Know”.

50 Sculptures You Should Know
Written by: Isabel Kuhl, Klaus Reichold, Kristina Lowis, Christine Weidemann
Prestel
2009
ISBN 978-3-7913-4338-9
Website

 

Make The World Better

As I write this, 2017 is just about to finish. The title of this post comes from Lucy Stone. Stone was an American suffragist who helped put women in her country on the path to the right to vote and improvements towards equality. She figures prominently in the fifth chapter of Adam Grant’s excellent book, “Originals.”

There is much to say about 2017 and there are many others who will say it better than me. So, I will just focus on a wish for the future. Speaking to her daughter, Lucy Stone’s final words were, “Make the world better.” A goal for all of us in 2018 and beyond.

Best wishes to everyone for a great year!

 

 

Nothing for Nothing

The photo was taken at a local supermarket.  I’ve got nothing more to say.